The defining feature of social anxiety disorder, also called social phobia, is intense anxiety or fear of being judged, negatively evaluated, or rejected in a social or performance situation. People with social anxiety disorder may worry about acting or appearing visibly anxious (e.g., blushing, stumbling over words), or being viewed as stupid, awkward, or boring. As a result, they often avoid social or performance situations, and when a situation cannot be avoided, they experience significant anxiety and distress. Many people with social anxiety disorder also experience strong physical symptoms, such as a rapid heart rate, nausea, and sweating, and may experience full-blown attacks when confronting a feared situation. Although they recognize that their fear is excessive and unreasonable, people with social anxiety disorder often feel powerless against their anxiety.
Social anxiety disorder affects approximately 15 million American adults and is the second most commonly diagnosed anxiety disorder following specific phobia. The average age of onset for social anxiety disorder is during the teenage years. Although individuals diagnosed with social anxiety disorder commonly report extreme shyness in childhood, it is important to note that this disorder is not simply shyness. Read about the difference.
Social anxiety disorder can wreak havoc on the lives of those who suffer from it. For example, individuals may decline a job opportunity that requires frequent interaction with new people or avoid going out to eat with friends due to a fear that their hands will shake when eating or drinking. Symptoms may be so extreme that they disrupt daily life and can interfere significantly with daily routines, occupational performance, or social life, making it difficult to complete school, interview and get a job, and have friendships and romantic relationships. People with social anxiety disorder are also at an increased risk for developing major depressive disorder and alcohol use disorders.
Despite the availability of effective treatments, fewer than 5% of people of with social anxiety disorder seek treatment in the year following initial onset and more than a third of people report symptoms for 10 or more years before seeking help.
To learn more in-depth about Social Anxiety Disorder and treatments, check out ADAA's Patient Guide to Mood and Anxiety Disorders.
ADAA Resources
Personal Stories:
- Healing My Speaking Anxiety So I Can Empower Others
- 7 Things I Wish I’d Known About Social Anxiety 20 Years Ago
- The Social Anxiety Spiral: How to Escape it and Create Lasting Relationships
- Every Breath I Take
- My Three Steps: How I Went from Socially Anxious to Socially Confident
- Living with Anxiety - Andy's story
Blogs:
- Overcoming Shame-Based Social Anxiety
- Tackling Shy Bladder Syndrome: Understanding and Managing Paruresis
- Women, Unwanted Sexual Attention and Social Anxiety
- Returning Safely to In-Person Learning
- What to Do When Social Distancing Meets Social Anxiety
- Help! I Keep Trying to Move Up the Corporate Ladder and My Social Anxiety is Holding Me Back
- Social Anxiety - Imperfect is the New Perfect
- 3 Things Your College Kid Must Know About Mental Health
Webinars:
- The CBT Workbook for Overcoming Shame-Based Social Anxiety: Live Q&A with the Author
- Social Anxiety in Teens & How to Treat It
- Overcoming Social Anxiety: Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) to Build Self-Confidence and Lessen Self-Consciousness
- What to Do When Your Kid Won't Let Go - Expert Tips for Overcoming Separation Anxiety
- How to Help Clients Overcome Social Anxiety, Part 2: Using Experiments to Build Self-Confidence - ADAA professional webinar
- How to Help Clients Overcome Social Anxiety Part 1 - ADAA professional webinar
- How to Overcome COVID Re-entry Anxiety
Videos & Podcasts:
Books by ADAA Member Experts
- Overcoming Shame-Based Social Anxiety and Shyness: A CBT Workbook to Move Past Feelings of Self-Consciousness or Defectiveness and Live with Confidence
- Triumph Over Shyness: Conquering Social Anxiety Disorder, Second Edition
- Find Your Fierce: How to Put Social Anxiety in Its Place
- How To Be Yourself
- Social Courage: Coping and Thriving with the Reality of Social Anxiety
- Stop Anxiety From Stopping You; The Breakthrough Program For Conquering Panic and Social Anxiety
- The Shyness and Social Anxiety Workbook for Teens: CBT and ACT Skills to Help You Build Social Confidence
- The Shyness and Social Anxiety Workbook: Proven, Step-by-Step Techniques for Overcoming Your Fear
Discover more self-help books by ADAA member experts.