by Sarah Fader

November, 2018

Do you get anxious when you cannot check your Facebook or Twitter account? Believe it or not, that is a real disorder. Social media anxiety disorder is a mental health condition that is similar to social anxiety disorder. In fact, anxiety disorders are the most common mental health disorders in the United States. It seems that the more technology we acquire, the more stressed out we become. According to the experts, almost 20% of people with social media accounts cannot go more than three hours without checking them. So, what is social media anxiety disorder?

Most people who have social media accounts do not get nervous or stressed out when they are not able to check their notifications every five minutes. However, for those who have social media anxiety disorder, just being away from their Facebook or Twitter account for a few minutes can cause severe anxiety. Here are some of the most common symptoms of social media anxiety disorder:

  • Interrupting conversations to check your social media accounts
  • Lying to others about how much time you spend on social media
  • Withdrawal from friends and family 
  • Trying to stop or reduce your use of social media more than once before without being successful
  • Loss of interest in other activities
  • Neglecting work or school to comment on Facebook or Twitter account
  • Experiencing withdrawal symptoms when you are not able to access social media 
  • Spending over six hours per day on social networking sites like Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram
  • Overwhelming need to share things with others on social media sites
  • Having your phone with you 24 hours a day to check your social media sites
  • Using social media more often than you planned
  • Severe nervousness or anxiety when you are not able to check your notifications
  • Negative impacts in your personal or professional life due to social media usage

Overall, about 30% of those who use social media spend more than 15 hours per week online. This can greatly reduce your ability to enjoy real life. It can also cost you relationships, jobs, and an education if you spend too much time online. If you are spending several hours a day on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, you are not going to have enough time to work, study, or spend time with loved ones. You may have social media anxiety disorder and it can also affect your health, both physically and mentally. 

Physical Risks of Social Media Addiction

Spending too much time online has been proven to cause illnesses such as eye strain, neck pain, and lower back problems. In addition, the sedentary way we sit around and “talk” to people on Facebook can cause physical illnesses such as obesity, heart disease, nutrition problems, and a risk of stroke and certain kinds of cancers. 

Mental Health Issues Caused by Social Media Addiction

Researchers have found that using social media obsessively causes more than just anxiety. In fact, testing has found that using too much internet can cause depression, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), impulsive disorder, problems with mental functioning, paranoia, and loneliness. It is more than just the pressure of sharing things with others, it is also about how you may be comparing your life with others you see on Facebook. Many people see that someone on Facebook who has a great job, excellent husband, and beautiful home and they feel happy for them. But, others can feel jealous, depressed, or may even feel suicidal about their own life if it is not as “perfect” as those they see on Facebook. 

What You Can Do

First of all, just realize that many people who post all that great stuff on Facebook have a normal life just like you and me but they only put the good stuff on Facebook. If your life is not as awesome as some of the people you see on Facebook, it is not going to get any better by sitting there obsessing over it. You have to get out and enjoy your real life, not your social media “life” because that is not a real life. If you are having trouble doing this or you just need to talk to someone, there are people who can help you with this. You do not have to have an appointment or even leave your home to do it. Talk to an online therapist or counselor now and you can feel better by tomorrow.

About the Author

Sarah Fader BIO_0.jpgSarah Fader is the CEO and Founder of Stigma Fighters, a non-profit organization that encourages individuals with mental illness to share their personal stories. She has been featured in The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Atlantic, Quartz, Psychology Today, The Huffington Post, HuffPost Live, and Good Day New York. 

Sarah is a native New Yorker who enjoys naps, talking to strangers, and caring for her two small humans and two average-sized cats. Like six million other Americans, Sarah lives with panic disorder. Through Stigma Fighters, Sarah hopes to change the world, one mental health stigma at a time.

I can definitely admit to a lot of these things and I think so can many other social media users. Trawling instagrams feeds of beautiful people with perfect bodies, jobs and relationships makes us feel insecure and inadequate. We then put tremendous pressure on ourselves to live up to these unrealistic portrayals of an insta worthy life. Even those famous influencers that we aspire to be have broken under the pressure.
Thank you for such an insightful read, it's good to be aware if the dangers of too much social media time!

ADHD isn’t something that just happens. It’s something your born with. You can not catch ADD or ADHD from using social media. This is vast misconception of the disorder. Please correct your article.


October 27, 2018

In reply to by Please amend

I don't believe it was intended to imply ADHD is a result of obsessing over social media, but rather a common, underlying disorder that could be contributing to the obsession.

I totally agree w/ you I always used to have to tell people in high school that self diagnosed themselves it isn't something you can just get over night. Thank you for stating your opinion so strongly.

just think about what you just said and do research. People can have ADHD because of other reasons than being born.

ADHD you can be born with and be a result of something else but social media has not caused ADHD. If you have an alert over someone texting you but social media doesn’t cause ADHD it can cause ODD

ADHD can actually be diagnosed if symptoms as an adult show for more than 6 months

the yeeter

February 21, 2019

In reply to by Please amend

i agree i have ADHD you are born with it you cant just acquire it.

In addition to other disorders, newer research suggests that yes, actually, ADHD is something that develops after birth. Can a mother expose her fetus to factors that are likely to increase the chance of ADHD? Yes of course. But, for the most part, this is now being seen as a disorder caused by environmental factors. Elements that would cause a child's fight-or-flight system to become overactive and therefore, cause any of the kinds of ADHD or a combination thereof. I agree that the article's wording can be misleading but to say ADHD is indefinitely a condition that a person is born with, is also incorrect.

Yeah they are right Because I was born with ADHD and I know that other people that spend to much time on facebook or ect don't catch it. They found out that I was ADHD way before I used technology. Not trying to be Mean I'm just agreeing

You are actually incorrect, you can develop ADHD over time. Especially when something is distracting you at all times a day, your brain starts to rewire itself and will start to get off topic and distracted more often.

alisa griffin

May 17, 2019

In reply to by Please amend

i have adhd i was born with it and i also have mental health issues

Victor Acedera Culla

January 17, 2019


I would like to ask if there is a tool/test I can use for my study on Social Media contribution to Anxiety?


Boy, can I, and like millions of others, relate. But ADHD is something you're born with. I don't think it's something you can develop

Newer studies reveal that it can be diagnosed after birth. It can be something you were born with, but it can also be something you weren't born with.

Thank you. I'm working on an essay for school of how social media causes more harm than good and this really helped me. I cited a lot of evidence from this article because of all the statistics. Keep up the good work :)